Tired.............

I am really getting tired with some of the things around me....When things are not moving smoothly, does that mean that when you show up , you are the one being blamed and you are suppose to clear the rubbish that is left behind?

Please, I just choose who I want to be but that doesn't mean that I am willing to take the blame for what is not being done by other people..

Army Guys

All the while, I don't have a good impression for army sign-on regulars due to past experience with them... I find that they are a group of guys that don't understand the reality of the world and very hard to communicate....

They will always live in their perfect world that they take things slowly and to them why work so hard..work so hard for what...they won't be appreciated, and also no need to work so hard one..cos by a certain age you will get promoted in certain way...(so good hor...)

They are highly paid and complain a lot...look around those sign-on regulars, most of them do drive a car at young age...If you don't agree to these then I suppose you belong to the minority lor...But guys, I am sorry, most of them do fall into the majority of the above examples lor...

These few weeks, I had been working with some of the army guys and...
They really got no initiative lor...waiting for instructions before things can be done... If not they can just say give up and end of story...just don't care of others and be in their perfect world....Is this how our country is being protected by them?

Hello guys, are you leading your life in this way ??? I thought that I can change the impression of army regulars but really lor...at this moment I only see one that is different lor..You know who you are and please don't fall back to the majority...proud of you ya =)

I always thought that is my belief that army regulars live in their own perfect, wonderful world ..but now I am really doubting is it a fact..cos the experience with them is....haiz..speechless..

Happy 牛year

Wow is 牛 year !!

This 牛 year I do have a lot of 1st time....

1) 1st time that I changed my bed sheet and got double pillow case instead of 1 pillow case and 1 bolster case...so my bolster got no case and I need to use the old one :(
2) 1st time went for a movie with my cousin and sister during CNY. Enjoyable outing.
3) 1st time visited to my friend's hse during CNY...Got to know more abt his wife and we two really can chat anything under the sun =)
4) 1st time being to Singapore Flyer and is on the 1st day of lunar New year...Change of luck...hehe.. ( After the shut down incident on 23rd December 08)
5) 1st time CNY i still need to do reporting to my senior for my LP journey....Although is only sms...but then still..........
6) 1st time eat steam boat, eat until the steam boat cooker spoiled...hahahaha..
7)1st time write a blog during CNY.

I believe this 牛 year will have lot and lot of my 1st time that I am going to experience ya.

Happy new Year to everyone and May you have a prosperous year!!

Genting & KL Agency Retreat

I just came back from a Genting & KL trip with my manager, Weiye and also 3 of my collegueas cum friends, Francis, Rebecca & Elisha... We had a great time in Genting and KL. We had fun and laughter throughout the journey.. Never know tat , Weiye can be fun too..He was one of the joker and he sang in high pitch...hahaha....

Didn't really spend much time with Weiye, he was either soak himself in the casino the whole day or still in the casino...haha.. Except for one night he was too tired that he decided to make full use of the hotel bed in KL..

I do have a lot of fun with the rest of them..( don't get me wrong, I do have fun with Weiye too ya..)I think this group of friends are of the group of friends who is open and able to share things out very directly and no judgement was being made...

Love Hut

Today i finally go to Word Press and explore the possibilties for my online business....

I am learing and using the platform of Word Press as somehow it is an easier way for me to do up a website as I am an IT idiot ( but still..i got stuck for long time)..It really took me effort, pain and sweat to get it done. Of course, with the help of my buddy, things do become smoother...but still learn it through owning it...which means hand on and get it done by myself!!!

I see lot n lot of stars....hahaha..Since this is what I really want to do, therefore no matter how difficult it was, I need to get it done ya...

The web page is still under construction, more things to be explore and to be uploaded..Will get it done soon...To find out more abt the biz, Visit the website and support me ya...

http://lovehut.wordpress.com/

Cannot Vs Should Not

I got a feedback saying that I got difficulties in saying this word "Cannot"! I will always use "should not" instead. By saying "should not" am I helping the other party to have a backdoor or Am I trying to keep a image of myself ? Why I can't bring myself to say "Cannot" to others?

Cannot = No
By not being honest and say "cannot" , what good will it bring to me ? Am I going to live in the image of "nice" and torture myself to do things or even to avoid things when I don't like, just because I wont use the word "cannot".

What am I scare off? Scare to spoil my image and also being mistaken....How worst can it be? The more is be a bitch in someone's life and being mistaken, being judge... Anyway is not the 1st time being a bitch in someone's life...

I think I should come out with a movie of "No Girl" . hahaha....

• What is the new relationship with "NO" ?
• By saying "NO" does that mean negative impact on you?
• What does "NO" bring to your life?
• Is "NO" really a No-No thing in your life?

Sometimes saying No or Cannot , is the only word that I need to use so that I can get over and get thing done with. =)

I believe

A Birth Certificate shows that we were born
A Death Certificate shows that we died

Pictures show that we lived!

Have a seat . . . Relax . . . And read this slowly.

I Believe...That just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do love each other.

I Believe ... That we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I Believe...That no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.I Believe...That true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I Believe... That you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I Believe...That it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I Believe...That you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I Believe... That you can keep going long after you think you can't.

I Believe...That we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I Believe...That either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I Believe...That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I Believe...That money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I Believe...That my best friend and I, can do anything, or nothing and have the best time.

I Believe...That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down, will be the ones to help you get back up.

I Believe...That sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I Believe...That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

I Believe...That it isn't always enough, to be forgiven by others.sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself..

I Believe...That no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I Believe...That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but, we are responsible for who we become.

I Believe...That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life Forever.

I Believe...Two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different..

I Believe...That your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.

I Believe...That even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you - you will find the strength to help.

I Believe...That credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I Believe...That the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.

The Happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything

Seven Pounds

I went to watch the movie "Seven Pounds" on Sunday. It reminded me of an exercise I went through in my Advance Course.

The main lead choose to sacrifice his life and passed "his life" to seven other people that he wants to save. He vote himself to die.

I will vote myself to be alive. By giving out my organs physically, how many lives can I touch? How many organs that I have EQUAL the number of lives being touched. When I am alive, how many people can I actually touch and make a difference ? Is countless....It depend what, when , who, why and how I am going to touch people's life and making a difference in them..

No. of organs u have donated when you die Versus Countless of life you can touch when you are alive, which one will you choose?

Think about it ...there is no right or wrong answer..It only voices down to What you want to create in your life and others' life.

JCDC vs Lego 3D Animation

Let us drink!

I had a good quotation to share.. I came across this quotation when I look through the wine menu in one of the pub...

" He who drinks get drunk.

He who gets drunk falls asleep.

He who falls asleep does not sin.

He who does not sin goes to heaven.

So let us drink....and go to Heaven!"

This is a very powerful marketing strategy as this quotation was found at the end of the wine menu and I am one of them that will drop into this "trap" ...hahaha..What about you ?