I really don't know how to use chopstick

I just had my dinner with some of my LP mates...then there was this sweet guy suddenly said to me : " Can I give you some feedback?" of course you can...this was what he said : " The way you hold the chopstick with the chicken was really wrong lor..How can you go on dates in this way ?"

Everyone was laughing off the heads at me...So I tried my best to do the correct way but my fingers just don't listen to me....hahaha..

Can I be committed to do the correct way ? So I do a search on the net, and I found something interesting..

Japan had a innovative product that you need to place your fingers on the dents of this chopstick. These chopsticks will teach you the correct way to hold chopsticks naturally. I think I need one of this chopsticks to teach me how to hold chopsticks correctly..hahaha. :P
Nevertheless, learning the correct method allows you to use any chopsticks available on the table....So Let's learn bah...

Pick up the first chopstick with the middle finger and thumb. Stiffen your hand for a firm grip. Have the broad end of the chopstick lay on the part where your thumb and index finger connect. Rest the narrow end on the tip of your ring finger, and hold it in place with the tip of your middle finger. (Hint: try holding it the way you hold a pen to write. It might rest on your ring finger or your middle finger, held in place by your index finger. Place the chopstick then lift your index finger so it can hold the second chopstick.)

Grip the second chopstick with your index finger. Place your thumb over the second chopstick. Adjust your grip to a more comfortable position. Make sure the narrow tips of the chopsticks are even with each other to help prevent them from crossing or being unable to "pinch" the food.

Hold it steady. This chopstick should not move when you attempt to pick up food. Alternatively, hold the first chopstick steady and move the second (top) chopstick by moving the tip of your index finger up and down while the thumb remains relatively steady, acting like a pivot point. The top chopstick remains pressed to the index finger from the tip through the first joint. The movement comes from flexing the joint closest to the knuckle. Straightening your index finger opens the chopsticks and bending it closes them, with perhaps a slight flexing of the thumb to keep the chopsticks lined up with each other. (Note: this alternative is different from the photos in how the top chopstick is held. The movement comes from the top chopstick, not the bottom one, so the top chopstick is held so that it can be moved easily. Use the method that is comfortable for you.)

Practice opening and closing the chopsticks. Make sure the broad ends of the chopsticks do not make an "X" as this will make it difficult to pick up food.
Pick up food at a good angle (try roughly 45 degrees from the plate); slightly lift it up. If it feels unstable, put it down and try again.